Saturday, November 14, 2015

DomCon Atlanta & Comic-Con Tulsa..."I did what where, a bullet presentation?"

First and foremost thanks to My houseboy Alden who has been a driving force behind Me coming back to update the blog. With that being said I must admit I had the best times in a long time at both DomCon and Comic-Con.

Since I'm not big on fluff and filler I'll be giving My highlights and low-lights of con events in a bullet style so here goes.


  • I have never had more fun or been in more fear for My life than when in Atlanta.
  • For My first professional event I'm happy to say I didn't have a fangirl moment when meeting some of BDSM's elite, nor did I puke (I'm particularly proud of the later).
  •  I learned that I must have a sub with Me at all times when I'm in the vendor's room. If not Mistress Mia becomes a very broke Lady. By the way I'd like to give a very big thank you to Gator's Paddles and Body Painting, Dr. Clockwork's Home for Electrical and Medical Oddities, Whipping Stripes, The Latex Store, and Leather By Danny for all My amazing amazing impulse purchases.
  •  I learned so much from this event that it is damn near scary, lol. The demos were of a caliber that I had yet to see and I was thoroughly impressed.
  • More friends are made naked than clothed...
  • 1763 is an excellent playspace, especially for My baby cousin to loose "her first dildo bought in public" in.
  • Never bring two boys/subs to play or scene together if you haven't confirm they're not related first.
  • Insatiable Amazon is even prettier in person inside and out, and even if you miss the Mistress Dinner she's is hosting she'll be pretty kickass.
  • Mz. Emily is one of the best trans dominas I've ever met and I totally just wanna live in her new dungeon when it's all done.
  • I hate that I missed Mz. Emily's room party and the "Big Black Dick Show"... I have gotta look into that.
  • I learned I'm super sexually attracted to plump butch ladies in leather.
  • I will absolutely be attending DomCon L.A. next year.


  • This was by far My most enjoyed (non BDSM/Fetish) con of the season.
  • I learned that Jason Mewes (Jay of "Jay & Silent Bob) is twenty times funnier in person than in any movie I've seen him in.
  • Phil Lamar has been My fangirl crush since age 15 and I don't believe that fact is gonna change any time in the near future. *** I LOVE VAMP ***, I know only a few of you guys will get that reference ;-)
  • Kevin Conroy was shorter than I imagined, but he is the night,he is vengeance, he's My BATMAN!!!
  • Sidebar *** Phil Lamar's hair smells liked mango while Kevin Conroy smelled like sandalwood.
  • I love scaring random teenagers with My whiteout mesh contacts in local IHOP's.
  • I have to admit I have problems with D&C (drinking & cosplaying), problems like being "Tipsy Michonne" and her one armed walker, lolz XD.
  • The panels were way better than I expected, specifically the JLA: Voices in Your Head, The Bruce Campbell Experience, The Synergy of Video Games, Films, and Books and My personal and super biased fav...Jason Mewes's Secret Stash.
  • And last but not least I cant wait to do another con again but this time its going to be in Atlanta at Dragon Con 2016!

Thursday, March 13, 2014

Tales of Female Lead Domination starring : Samuelx

As you all may or may not know I love to read. And as a dominatrix I love getting My hands on erotica especially femdom driven story lines, but for the life of Me I could never find a story that I could truly relate to until I read a short essay by one Samuelx. He is a spinner of many a tell of not just femdom led relationships and all the sub-sets that come along with them, but he crafts them with an urban twist and flare that I simply adore. He gives a more realistic look at D/s relationships in the African-American community of kink. From simple Domme sub relations to the aspects of black cuckholded husbands held in languish by domineering wives and girlfriends.

And now with his permission I would like to introduce....

Black Cuckolding 101 by Samuelx

Welcome to the world of Black Cuckold Couples, my name is Kia Haywood-Albright and I’ll be your guide. When you think of cuckolding, I bet you automatically envision a White couple, a Black guy with a big dick and a scenario involving the Black dude fucking the White chick while her White hubby watched the whole thing unfold. Well, it’s not always that way. Trust me on this one. First of all, cuckolding isn’t just for White couples. Lots of Black couples are into it, we just don’t advertise it as much.
I bet I’ve got your attention now, ladies and gentlemen. Let me tell you a bit about me first, though. I’m a five-foot-ten, curvy and sexy, dark-skinned sister living in the City of Aberdeen, Maryland. I’m forty five years old and I’m still quite beautiful. Lots of mature Black women look even more gorgeous at that age than they did in their younger years. I work as a teacher with the Aberdeen Public School System and my husband Alexander Albright is a regional manager with a tech company, Wheeler Tech Inc. We met at Maryland State University twenty five years ago, and have been together ever since. The computer science nerd and the teacher-wannabe got hitched, that’s our story.
A lot of people think that Black love isn’t strong and that it isn’t here to stay. Bullshit. Lots of Black men love their Black women. And I am proud to say that I am the type of sister who loves the brothers. Especially the one I married. I love my husband dearly, and we have a wonderful life together. Our eldest, Amanda is a senior at Georgia Tech, taking up civil engineering and our son Eric is at the University of Miami, studying medicine. Our youngest son James is in the U.S. Army, currently serving in Afghanistan. Life is good.
With an empty nest, Al and I are free to explore our sexuality again. Recently, my husband Al revealed to me that he’s bisexual. He’s a big and tall, muscular Black man, so even though I’ve known him half my life, I was kind of surprised. Still, I love my hubby and assured him that I appreciated his honesty. A lot of Black women would run for the hills if the Black man in their life revealed that he was anything other than straight. I am not like those Black women. It took a lot of courage for Alexander to admit to me that he’s always felt sexually attracted to both men and women. A lot of bisexual Black men out there would never take a chance and risk it all by revealing their true selves to their wife or girlfriend. That’s why I count my blessings that Al is my dear husband and the father of our offspring.
The revelation of Al’s bisexuality didn’t bug me one bit. In fact, it opened up a lot of doors for our marriage. You see, I write erotic fiction stories and I also watch a lot of porn. Yes, middle-aged, married Black women like myself can be into porn too. It’s not just for men, dammit. I love watching gay porn, especially gay Black porn and sometimes I watch interracial gay porn. My favorite type of porn is the brand featuring she-males or transsexuals. I love watching porn featuring a chick with a big dick, especially if she’s Latina or Black.
Why is that, you may ask ? I find Latina transsexuals and Black transsexuals more exotic than the White ones. Is there anything hotter than a Brazilian transsexual with a sexy body, pretty face, big tits, big ass and a big thick cock ? I love watching Brazilian transsexuals fucking Black guys. One of my favorites is Lisa Lawyer. I watched a porno where she bent a Black guy over and fucked his ass till he begged for mercy. The contrast between the bronze-skinned, blonde-haired, gorgeous Latina transsexual and the muscular, dark-skinned hunk who was riding her dick simply drove me nuts. I love that shit !
I told Al about my interest in porn, and we began incorporating certain elements of that into our lovemaking. For the past twenty-odd years that we’ve been married, Al has totally dominated me in the bedroom. The six-foot-four, 260-pound, dark-skinned African-American macho man totally owned my ass on our marriage bed. I loved it when he would put me on all fours, spank my big Black butt and then make me suck his long and thick ebony cock before drilling my cunt with it. Sometimes he even fucked me up the ass. Like a lot of Black women out there, I love anal sex but it’s not an easy thing to achieve with Al. My hubby’s got a nine-inch, uncircumcised chocolate stick for a dick. It’s not easy to fit that thing in my asshole, no matter how much lubricant we use. Al’s packing and he sure knows how to use what he’s got, believe me !
Well, now that I know that Al actually has a submissive side, I was most eager to explore it. To start, I became more assertive in the bedroom. I became a real dominatrix, donning sexy Black leather miniskirts and red and Black tank tops, and sporting a whip and a strap-on dildo just like any professional dominatrix. Al liked that new side of me. He liked it even more when I began dominating him in the bedroom. I tied up Al, flogged his ass with the shiny new flogger I bought and even tied up his big chocolate dick with velvet rope. I love watching a big Black dick tied with velvet rope. Don’t ask me why. Gets my pussy wet just thinking about it.
That’s not all that Al and I did. I put him on all fours and fingered his butt hole with my gloved fingers before working a dildo up his butt. My macho Black husband looks wonderful lying on his back with a dildo up his ass. As the tall Black dominatrix standing over him, I feel simply powerful. I made Al get on his knees and fucked him with my strap-on dildo. I also made him wear a chastity device on that thick chocolate dick of his while I led him around the house on a leash. I am the dominatrix, the mistress and the one in charge. He is my slave, my submissive. He obeys and I give the orders. Talk about a game changer, eh ? After more than twenty five years of marriage, I finally dominated my husband, the strong Black man. As a Black woman, I feel happy and satisfied.
Still, I wanted to push the envelope and Al was all for it. That’s why I invited our mutual friend Samuel over for some fun. Samuel is a big and tall young Black guy of Haitian descent who lives next door. He attends Maryland State University, our alma mater. What Al doesn’t know is that Samuel is bisexual. Samuel recently got dumped by Dominique, this White chick he was dating at school. He confided in me during that turbulent time and I became his shoulder to cry on. Well, I told the young brother he needed some chocolate booty. And let me tell you, he definitely got some from Al and me ! Samuel, Al and I sat down and discussed things before getting down and dirty. We got the party started in the bedroom, and it turned out to be a night for the ages.
Since this was a cuckolding scenario, I made sure both Al and Samuel knew what was expected of them. I made Al wear a chastity device on that big Black cock of his so he couldn’t get hard, and he also put on a Gimp Mask. I find those so sexy, since they’re completely Black and cover everything, leaving out only the eyes and the mouth. I also made Samuel wear a mask, because I find those hot. As for me, I was in full dominatrix gear. Black tank top, Black leather miniskirt and thigh-high Black leather boots. And I had my whip and strap-on dildo at the ready like a true mistress.
Without further ado, we got the party started. I ordered Al to get on his knees and he began sucking on Samuel’s long and thick Black cock. I stood there, fingering my hairy, wet pussy as I watched my husband suck dick for the first time. Well, as far as I know anyways. Al’s ass looked so cute that I just had to play with it. I told him to spread his cheeks for me and just like that, I lubricated his hole and began fucking him with the strap-on dildo. Banging my strong Black husband with a strap-on dildo as he sucked the younger Black guy next door’s thick dick totally turned me on. I spanked Al’s ass and ordered him to suck Samuel harder. My hubby did as he was told. All husbands should obey their wives. Life is better this way.
We did it like this for a while, then I switched things up. Now that Al had gotten Samuel’s dick sufficiently hard, I wanted to hop on for a ride. And just like that, I got on all fours, shook my big Black butt at Samuel and told the young brother to fuck me. Like he needed to be told ! Samuel grabbed my hips and thrust his big chocolate stick deep into my pussy. Meanwhile, my husband Al watched. What else could he do ? I teased and taunted him as I got fucked by Samuel, and just like the Black cuckold he is, Al had no choice but to endure it. To truly humiliate Al, I made Samuel take off the condom and cum on my cunt after he pulled out ( no worries, I’m on the pill ) and made Al lick it. It’s the cuckold’s job to clean up after the Bull came all over the hot wife’s pussy, is it not ? It’s just that I’m a Black hot wife with a Black cuckold husband and I got fucked by a Black Bull. That’s hot, right ?
After licking Samuel’s cum off of my pussy, Al sucked Samuel’s dick. Just like a good cuckold should. Winking at Samuel, I told him to fuck my husband in the ass. Al looked at me, stunned. I grabbed his face and told him that the fantasy he’d been scared to experience was finally going to come true. Yes, I am a Black wife who wants to watch my Black husband get fucked in the ass by another Black guy. It’s a modern world that we live in, ladies and gentlemen ! Al was hesitant. I told him to relax, and that everything would be alright. Al nodded, and Samuel rolled another condom on that thick chocolate dick of his. The Black Bull was ready to fuck the Black cuckold in front of the Black wife. That’s fantastic !
I spread Al’s hairy butt cheeks and lubricated his hole once more before guiding Samuel’s cock into it. Samuel pressed his dick against my husband’s butt hole and pushed it inside. Al groaned sharply as his ass got penetrated. I fingered my cunt as I watched the spectacle. The most erotic thing I’ve ever beheld, ladies and gentlemen. Two masculine Black men fucking while a lucky Black woman watched. Is there anything hotter ? While Samuel pounded his way into Al’s ass, I removed the chastity device from Al’s dick and stroked his cock to its full hardness. It seemed that Al’s dick got real hard with a cock up his ass !
And so it went. Samuel pumped his big black dick into Al’s tight black ass, and my husband’s screams and moans filled our bedroom. After about half an hour, Samuel couldn’t take it anymore. He pulled out of Al’s ass, took off the condom and came. Grabbing Samuel’s dick, I began sucking it. Al lay on the bed, slumped and evidently tired. I ordered him to suck some dick. Al nodded, and knelt beside me, sucking Samuel’s dick with gusto. Evidently having a Black husband and a Black wife side by side sucking his dick turned on the young Black Bull, for he came a second time. Samuel’s cum splashed our faces, and Al and I eagerly licked Samuel’s cum off each other’s visage. What can I say ? Sharing is caring !
What a hot night ! I still shudder with lustful excitement just thinking about it. Al and I had a lot of fun with Samuel, and since he lives next door, we both continue to have fun with him. Separately or together, we don’t care. Samuel’s dick is the gift that keeps on giving. I’ve come home at time to find my husband Al face down and ass up on the sofa, Samuel’s dick up his butt. Other times, Al comes home from work and finds me on my knees, sucking Samuel’s delicious dick. No jealousy in our household. Of course, Al and I still have regular sex together. Just the other day he bent me over the kitchen counter and fucked me in the ass, using butter as lubricant. It was nasty and wicked, and I loved it. Al, my strong Black husband, a freaky bisexual brother whom I love to death. I love our life together. We share everything, and we’re happy. Could things get any better ?

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

A sneek peek at My new dungeon (Finally Finished)

Having a bit of boot & heel licking fun with My newest boy slut-jake in My new private mini-dungeon. It gets worse, but you'll have to check out My NiteFlirt or to see how sadistic I can really be.

Saturday, October 1, 2011

The Glamazon is moving!

The Plains better look out, because Mistress Mia is setting up shop in Oklahoma. If you're in or around the Tulsa area, drop me a line because I'm looking for some fresh meat.

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

A Few Words from Swt_T from Impact of Memphis about "Sample Your Fantasy" 6/26/10...

Hope to see everybody this weekend for SYF. We're getting all geared up and have a great line up for your kinky pleasure. Without further ado, this is our SYF 2010 line up:

* The Electric Company (for all of your electrical needs): PowerGamez will be your guide. This will include the Electric Chair, violet wand and a TENS unit.

* The St. Catherine's Wheel: Take a ride on one of the Evilest Medieval torture devices- Ronald will be your Wheel Spinner.

* The art of Erotic Stapling: Corset lacings with out the corset-- Our sharp witted and well dressed Mistress Claire will be your guide to a very beautiful and erotic art.

* Whips-- Lord Dixxy will be whipping you up to a frenzy in the Shackled Pleasures room.

* You're Fire!-- Master Richard will set your world on fire and you'll be begging for more.

* Try a Toy-- Mistress Mia will be your Toy Diva this year. We'll have a smorgasbord of famous and infamous toys for your kinky delight, including Flogzilla, Citizen Cane, and a couple of unbreakable lovely paddles called Sweet and Sour. We'll also have a horse hair flogger, a fur flogger, some Boingers, and a ton of other toys donated for your use on SYF by our awfully generous (and helpful!, don't forget helpful) members.
* Stick it to me baby: Countessa will get under your skin when she demonstrates the art of needle play.

* Knife play: You call that A knife? Well, I (yes me- Swt T) will show you a knife and some other tips for safe, fun and oh so sexy knife play.

* Tying one on: One of my favorite Shabari Masters- Chris will show you how to tied up or tie one down. And it's all good. If you're more into giving than receiving, his lovely rope model, mel, will be there for you to practice on.

* And last but not a bit in the least, Cauterization Branding with Rook. And He promises, it won't hurt a bit. ;-)

Damn, I can't wait.


Swt T

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Drag Queens, Shibari, and Dinner... Oh My!

This was a very full, very fun packed weekend. My original plans were set a drift after one of My dumber bitches/POM's forgot that when I say "You Have 24 Hours To Make Payment On All PayPal Requests" I really mean it. So My weekend money was late and it through off My plans for an Impact playdate I had planned this weekend with a very sexy... very curvy newbie to the Dungeon and her equally submissive studly tagalong boytoy. GODDAMMIT!!! I HATE STUPID CHEAP FUCKING FUCKTARD ASSHOLES THAT CAN ALWAYS SEEM TO REMEMBER TO CHECK IN EVERYDAY TO SEE MY FACE OR HEAR MY FUCKING VOICE, BUT SOMEHOW ARE ALWAYS LATE ON THEIR GODDAMN TRIBUTES FOR POM OR FINANCIAL DOMINATION... FUCKIN PATHETIC PIECES OF SHIT IS MORE LIKE IT!!!

Well anyhoooz and moving right along, LOLZ...
I had a kick-ass time at my "Doing It Black FemDomme Style" Shabari demo were I showed the Ladies how to do the ties for the "Pacifier", or like I like to call it the "That Will Make Him Stay Put Special" (an Adam's belt-style rope corset with slipknot loops for the hands to be placed at the sides so that the boy can be placed in a chair or to a whipping post with no use of his hands and very little balance) which the little group found most delightful. After saying My goodbyes to the hostess I made My way home. Halfway there I realized I was in a "watch two men makeout (or worse...yayz!!!) gay club" kinda mood. So with Houseboy alden in tow playing as chauffeur I had a good ole fashioned Drag Queen loving' time @ BackStreet Night Club , so I had no rain on My parade as far as My entertainment for the evening was concerned.

My Sunday fared just as well doing another Shabari demo for a friend, but minus the Drag Queens this I enjoyed more long conversations of spankings, rape, art, collars and body worship with my SGsp that ended with what I believe was his first over the phone orgasm denial/cock training (it makes Me smile when I'm in total control a boys penis ^_^)...

Now Monday was the doosie... Out of left field I get a nice to the point "I bucked up Mistress" email from the brat of a boy that was supposed to build My new Queening throne, but flaked at the last minute without a words notice or explanation. After doing the last of My Shabari demos for the month and a Black Dommes/Doms mini-munch he met Me for drinks and dinner (his dime of course) so that he could explain himself, have a break from the drama of his VERY far too real world, and have a small stool in the corner of My wicked one (more fun here anyway... we have candy...lolz). After 6 drinks and many laughs later I allowed him back into My creepy little fold **evil grinz**. Then like every night for the past week now it was time for SGsp to give me another performance of a lifetime via AT&T. And like always he never fails to bring a cruel smirk to my face as he begs and ever so slightly howls for release. Just another "Manic Monday" I

Till Later Ciao' 4 Now,


Saturday, May 8, 2010

... o.O The Slut That Wore HEELS O.o ...

*** A Quick Sidebar From slut-tammi's True Mistress Goddess Sandra***


I would like tammi dressed in her nightie, panties, stockings, high heels, full make up, collar, fingerless gloves. Once dressed, she would be taken for high heel punishment. To make this as intense as possible, have a 2x4 board for the heels or two rolls of toilet paper.. A chair should be put under the bar. While tammi sits, the heels are put on her and placed on the 2x4. Her arms should be placed so the bar goes behind her back (that way she can’t use her arms take to the pressure off her feet when standing). she is then brought to her feet and arms are cranked forward. she will then bend over the more the bar is raised. Once she is tightly wound. It’s time to attach the weighted clamps to her nipples. They are symbolic (ice cream cones) something tammi is supposed to avoid eating. There is a vibrator that will shake the chrome off of anything. This should be inserted in her bottom and taped in place. This will drive her wild. If kept in long enough it will cause her to have a sissy flow O (not an enjoyable Orgasm). You will probably take her down before that happens. Do allow her a rest period at about five minutes. When she sits, the vibrator will be driven deeper into her. When she stands again, feel free to increase the intensity and discomfort. Once you feel she has suffered enough she is all yours to be tormented and pegged. Her mouth should be used as well. She may suck or hand job a real cock but not taken anally (I have a gorgeous pre-TS that has begged to pop her bottom cherry.

Warmest Regards



Not light and painless after my scene. . Will just need a break from the feet. Nipple, mouth, and bottom (plug) will be fine just give her time to recover a bit. I really want this to be intense. If tammi should make a mess she must eat her seed. Use her and make her suffer. No marks on her from spanking although feel free to punish her bottom if she needs it. The only marks should come if she does something really bad like disrespect you etc. This is going to be so much fun.

Warmest Regards


Hello all you happy lil pervs & POM's and welcom to a little game I like to call "Are You A Good Girl"...

The rules of the game are simple, just do what I say and all will be fine (or as close to "fine" as I allow you to get...LOLZ).

Todays contestant... sissy tammi. Weighting in at a whopping 235lbs, slut-tammi is in serious need of some very strict discipline about her eating habits. She learned this when temped by a silvery bowl of ice cream brought to me by ***EVIL*** Houseboy alden on a glittering tray. she refused the ice cream and was more than happy to take her ice cream-esque shaped weighted nipple clamps instead.

I see that her will is stronger than previously thought. Now we make our paces through this rigorous 3 hour session....


Being a BBW that maintains herself I know the joys of a brisk jog from time to time, and being the GLAMAZON that I am I can do it in heels...
So now was the time to put my wicked plan into action. For the very beginning of MY interactions with tammi we would enjoy a 15 minute jog around the lovely Impact of Memphis' Private Dungeon & BDSM Playspace in my 5" Fredrick's of Hollywood heels and tammi's 5" black espadrilles. To show that tammi is not a girl light on her feet, she was punished with backtracking and rerunning around furniture and other item she happened to bump into or stumble across. which lagged this part of the session to nearly 20 minutes.

.....(^_^) But it was well wort it and to adorable when she begged for a break, not to breath but to fix popped off nails and mussed hair (^_^).....

...(o.O More Goodness With slut-tammi To Come Later O.o)